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Naming Harassment

The Weinstein situation is enabling the development of a space in public and private arenas where it’s ok to speak out and say ‘me too’. But there’s some debate around what’s serious enough to voice and report and name. I’m growing to realise that in accepting the rights, or at best the presumed normality of the actions of these men I also choose in my attitude of acceptance to in some way make the problem mine. We need to make our society and culture a place where this behaviour is shunned rather than met with a shrug.
Change begins with actions of bravery.

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Bringing life to the Smart City

Smart Cities are hailed to be the ethnographical and geographical change of current times. Promoted as the means to change not only the way our rapidly growing urban areas function, but also more importantly held to the somewhat blinding accolade as holding the means to change our lives, not just now but for the future too.

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Doing Change

Change will happen anyway, whether we like it or not. It has the potential to make the world anew. But that it’s not the change that makes the difference, but how we explore the possibility in the pain.

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Dialogue- Isaacs

Often the typical meeting room is full of people holding a series of conversations that come preloaded with hidden paradigms of belief, expectation and personal ambition. What this means is that the communication taking place is driven by a mixture of agendas, with everyone seeking to direct and steer the conversation in ways that withhold their point of view. This is limiting.

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Acceptance

Acceptance can lead us to normalise and even ignore situations and events that we should instead stand up and shout about. Acceptance removes our desire to be heard, to fight for the things we believe are right and just and moral. In acceptance we become stalled and static, frozen, unable to move, blind to possibility and the promises in the tension of change.

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Kantor – 4 Player Model

The Four Player Model developed by David Kantor is at the core of the theory of structural dynamics. Structural dynamics is rooted in systems dynamics, and is specifically concerned with how human communication does, or does not work. Kantor explains that people behave differently in different situations, contexts and conversations.

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The freedom of my lives

Over the years of my life, through the different lifetimes that I have lived, freedom to me has been an ever changing obscurity, that as at times been elusive in its presence, and yet it’s absence un-noted or a silent drowning.